For more than 35 years Les Carter, Ph. How many times have i read something over and over and gotten something different from it each time. I am fascinated by how mystified we men and women seem to be with each other. Guys act as if all they have to do is breathe. All i can say is that after reading some of his material I began to observe men and talk to my good guy friends about some of the suggestions. But I do believe that my programs are the best in the world on this important area of your life and I stand behind everything in them. Here is the truth behind his excuse.
But for you because of what you say. His entire program on Communication Secrets is on communication, and it never implied keeping quiet. If I have anything to share from this it is that we already know the truth. Goodness and affirmation become first priority. It is an ego thing and they are seeking comfort and a hiding place.
Of course not we are who we are. Some gems from that article: -always wear tight jeans and heels on a date. Do you try to train your cat the same way you train your dog? In essence he is everything that is wrong with our culture all wrapped up into one big douche pardon my language. While you context might work for you and even for some women, neither represents the majority of people and the majority of relationships. I found the newsletters to be an extremely useful peek into how men think in those crucial first weeks and months.
This guy is full of shit and he knows it, but is laughing all the way to the bank. Of course maybe not is also possible. Just communicate my needs calmly and constructively. But at the end of the day you have to understand the rule to understand the exception and where you fit. Why else would they be interested in a book like this? I do not understand the I am a guy and many, many years ago I started getting Christians emails. If they have bad manners, you have a problem since, sooner or later, you will be the lucky recipient of them. I also bought his e-book, but the code number to print it off doesnt work and the customer service link and numbers dont actually link to anything.
I glanced at the Book cited above, Fascinating Womanhood, and that also has bad reviews on Amazon. Take the focus off you and put it on him for a change. I wanted to know if his comments about men were correct, how we thought, what we looked for. This program was different because I felt I was really given some true insights in how a man thinks. Of course it feels good, who wouldnt want that? One very healthy and everything we say we want and the other very appealing but I knew something was wrong. I admire non-experts giving truths for certainly Opera is not on the air any more, well kind of.
At one point he is about to reveal what the signs of a committed man are, and then he switches to talk about ways people destroy their relationships. I also posted this here so other women are aware of this product. Then set out some activities that you could take part in together. He continues with dating tips and places where to find suitable men. I realized that, as a guy, I could shine a light on what men think and why we behave the way we do — giving you an enormous advantage in dating and relationships. And not for the best. Ladies, there is some validity to the idea that a man might want a relationship with someone who has their act together.
What are you confused about? Pearls of wisdom have included: 1. I always tell my lover? Even gay relationships have problems. Ignore Mr Carter, and for fun keep and eye on him to see what name he chooses for his next scam. This is pedantic and tiresome. The author gives step-by-step instructions on how to do that. We must not make the mistake of mothering men though.
Many women in order to keep a man attracted and interested. Now I have the vision that I can work on my relationship to make it better than ever… to make it last for ever. Aren't your expectations different for each and aren't their needs completely different from each other. What these misleading programs teach is that you not only have to adopt behaviors and traits that may be alien to who you are but that you also should never expect to have that genuine relationship that you long for. Of course women want to improve themselves.
At that point, it becomes your task to stay on point, as opposed to letting the other person hijack your good intentions. Although, for the Medium class American maybe Carter is revolutionary! An the repercussions might in fact be singledom. Some points make perfect sense and his insight into the male psyche is astounding at times. Christian Carter or whatever the heck your name is, you need to wake up and smell the coffee. They feel the man is always wrong, the man is the problem, the man needs to change. Then I saw that lure: How to keep your man.