The fact that your boyfriend still gets along with his ex can be both good and bad. I guess the bit I am finding hard to reconcile is that he is a bad guy. Now yesterday again I found she has posted some exam tips on his page. I have tried: Talking to him about how I feel. My biggest dilemma is, if I want him to come back to me someday do I hang around like I am now and be supportive or does that throw me into the friend zone with no point of return??.
Of course this doesn't actually work, and in fact, increases suspicion, but he doesn't know that. I couldn't be any happier. He says she doesn't know what she wants. I pressed him and he said when we moved in together he would get a solid divorce. But i felt so hurt and unfair someone like the ex could spend the time with her yet I, who love her so heartedly is unable to.
But since the beginning he would be always confused. I have kept photos from past relationships, but always tucked away and never on display in my living room. Your best first course of action is to tell him that you can't handle what she is posting and that you are going to block them both and move forward and find a new partner. Until one day he told me that he wants to stop our relationship for a while. Granted, it could still happen. Three he still cares for his ex and they have talked about getting back together but can not make it work because they do nothing but fight when they see each other.
When we met we both were in the process of a divorce, mine being finalized last month. Who he said all said their mother hated him. But if he finds someone to tolerate it, hey, cool for him. Perhaps the reason she asked for them back was money and control? I have never met the ex. Yes, I made the mistake of looking at it! Ten months later, we're very much in love, and everything's going great, except for this: I recently found out he's still working with his ex. He would come back everytime saying he loves me and wants to marry me bla bla. I met a man thru my brother last Halloween and he had been separated from his wife for about six months at that point.
I can see where this might raise suspicion. There is nothing pointing to her being a crazy jealous girlfriend. We still think you need to talk with him about how you feel. He does not have physical contact with his ex anymore so I believe , but on an emotional issue, I believe that she is still his wife in his thoughts. If he does catch you on the phone, tell him he needs to get on with his life and stop contacting you or you are going to contact his wife and hang up. He has so many issues, thinking of what the future could have been, what if this, what if that, it is exhausting just reading all of it.
Encourage him to resurrect his career but do so in a manner that does not bring up his past life. He started pulling away from me 2 weeks before he broke it off. The worst part that made me so depressed is i have to see both of them every Sunday. But, he would never tell me who the mother of the baby was. I figured I leave him alone but I couldnt hold it and texted him. Does he still look for her approval before making a big decision or making a change in his life? And totally bitch about them to your girlfriends and to Smitten. It feels like I'm his second choice.
But this morning he sent me a message that they had a long talked yesterday and crying and get emotional and after that he felt some love to his ex wife again. Which he went home and did. And do something about it. We hope this helps give you some perspective. I thought she secretly wished they were still together. But we have been going out for a while now and its going a lot better than before, at least I thought. A boyfriend who still holds a stuffed toy given by his ex while lying in bed is never good news for a new lover.
But he went back to his ex. Either act would make me strongly consider moving on from a woman, especially if the relationship is new. I try to call to talk but he ignores my call…shocker…that is the kind to be leery of. Just remember that you two have some navigating to do, too, in figuring out what your life together will look like in this blended family. He said he lost feelings for me and not Inlove anymore, of course that broke me and I was a mess!!! I have been seeing a man for 9 months, his wife has her first affair 4 years ago but he 'would have walked to the end of the earth' his words to save the marriage of 25 years. Do not stop your medication or change the dose of your medication without first consulting with your physician.