All I do is workout, go to work, and do my school work. The women were very narcissistic and most of them were very disloyal and whorish. Single again - but after I learned how to start talking more - it just got easier to have conversations with everyone and things just happened. He let me do everything at my own speed. My friends say I'm the funniest person they ever met and I always have them cracking on the floor.
That becomes such a pain in the ass that you end up responding with one word answers for fear of saying the wrong thing. So, I'm a 16 years old boy and I've never kissed a girl or anything. Like there's so many possibilities but you're sitting here listing negatives for god knows what reason. Go with the flow, and stop caring. Get into a relationship and it will happen sooner than if you're just friends and talking with several girls.
Sure, I'll embarrass myself every now and then, but I'm an awkward teenager and shit happens. Dude, I'm 17 too and never kissed a girl, had a girlfriend or any of that but I don't give a damn. If you were to die in 12 months, what would you do? Forget the judgemental high school days, people hardly do those things in college. The most recent exapmple of this, was on a school trip, a girl on a different school I was sitting beside started talking to me, and all I could do was give one word replies, inevetably, ending any chance of further conversation. Right around when I was 17, I started dating. You dont even really have to drink but if your somebody whos shy it will help, im not saying that you have to go out and get plastered every night just saying that a few drinks will help you be more social.
It sounds a little trite but you can't truly love someone else unless you can love yourself. Nom, You are clearly an articulate, bright 17 year old with a good head on his shoulders and a sharp sense of humor. The same thing goes for anything in life-- you should at least try. Exactly - be yourself, have fun and do what you enjoy doing. My gf now, was a long time friend, and one day, there was a spark, and we never looked back.
You are very self deprecating. I don't like the idea myself, but it's next on my list of things to try, since nothing else seems to be working. You wasted your own time by reading this. Despite the fact that I excel at everything across the board, I still don't see myself as good enough for attractive girls. If you want a girl to see you in a more than friends way you have to project that to her.
And do it with a smile. You are by no means a failure. I've been in your shoes, up until soph year of high school I was a loner, a nerd, had bad style, not exactly clean, overweight, didn't have confidence and always looked down to the ground when I walked. I don't really like that, as people aren't seeing the real me so I'm going to try and change it. So think of it that way. Anyways, keep your head up, go out there and experience the dating world. I've met a lot of girls through work, I'm not sure if you work somewhere with a high volume of females or not.
Thats how most people be social they get in there car drive to a party have a few drinks loosen up and be social and stay out late, just think about it. All I hear is that your confidence is down because all these assholes have girlfriends and you don't. I actually think it's kind of cool that you're waiting, though if I were dating you and we didn't kiss like I made a move and you turned away I know it'd almost be kind of hurtful, but if it's something you two discussed and agreed upon, then I'm sure it'd be fine and I think it would be a turn on because it shows you're firm in your beliefs, which is amazing because she wouldn't be getting a watered down man who can't stick to his guns. I know a couple ppl who live at home at that age and still go out and pick up girls. Like, there's probably a good amount of people you know, who if you had to guess, you'd guess they had. Beyond my family, who as cliché as it sounds don't always get my problems, I don't really have any deep connections.
Not women you have to pretend to be someone your not, or women you have to constantly walk on eggshells for and women you don't trust because you think they are just using you. Today she claimed her phone was dying and she couldn't talk, but was posting Snapchat stories all day. So it can be tricky. There was a boy I was totally in love with. I'm rather uncomfortable with this since it's like everybody ''did that, did this.